| BDSM is shortened from Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadomasochism. Though it may sound rather perverted, some people crave to be subservient in sex, others – to dominate. If you recollect a few moments from your sex, some of you, to their enormous astonishment, will discover that they have already tried some elements of BDSM. Remember the excitement you experienced when your sexual partner was touching you with a feather or an ice cube, you being blidfolded? That is an example of BDSM. It can be either sadistic and savage or very erotic and tender. It resembles a love game where one wants to be slavish and the other wants to be dominant. The roles are not inflicted upon partners and can be interchangeable.
BDSM is not a set of strict instructions you are to fulfill in sex. On the contrary, it is entirely up to you and your partner to choose a scenario that will help you make your secret fantasies and cravings come true. You can use your vivid imagination to the fullest, no limits being imposed.
BDSM and abuse are opposite notions, since an abuser has no feelings for a victim. Pain and sufferings inflicted by a dominant partner to a slavish one are not that unbearable for most partners. It is similar to massage, which is painful in the beginning, but then it brings you to the top of pleasurable sensations.
Beneath are some love games for you to pat your attention to.
- The arousing ice
Ice is regarded as one of the favorite adult accessories of all times. Blindfold and tighten up your partner and let him or her get physical pleasure by running an ice cube all over the body. Or you can put it in your mouth and run your lips and tongue over your partner's body. For anal and vaginal climax make an ice dildo.
- The enchanting brush
A brush is splendid medium to make your sexual partner excited. Blindfold and tie up your sexual partner and stroke his or her body parts with a soft brush and a stiff brush.
- The wonderful clothespin
Clothespins will work perfectly, too. Clamp them on the nipples, arms, genitals and wherever you like. Do not remove them right away. Let a shiver run through your partner's body.
- The fabulous flogger
A flogger is a whip designed for hitting partner. A good flogger does not cause any injury. Still, you should be cautious. Do not flog the lower back to avert damaging kidneys. Buttocks, thighs and the upper back are suitable body parts to use your flogger on.
- The enticing bondage and restraint
It is advisable to use a regular rope to tighten your partner. A spread-eagle position may become uncomfortable for your partner and even painful. For those who favor handcuffs, opt for the ones that are double locked. They will not bind if you put pressure or sit on them. Yet, always insure that there are no symptoms of numbness, since excessive tightening can cause poor blood flow.
Try new things. Be creative in bed. |
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